Tuesday, August 12, 2008


In the past few days I've had more than a couple people ask me what I look for in girls. This may be because to most people I date sporadically with no real pattern in the girls. While looking at my history with women there may not be any obvious similarities - they've all had very different personalities, physical features, and ideologies.

Actually, there are three things that determine whether or not I feel I could have a relationship with a girl:
  1. She has to challenge me mentally.
  2. She has to challenge me physically.
  3. I have to be able to nothing with her.
I wrote a post a few weeks ago about this that went into more detail regarding the first two points, but the third is a new one I've learned recently. I don't want to always have to do something with a girl or always have to have something to talk about...I want to be able just do nothing with her; just enjoy her company and be with her.

And that's it.

1 comment:

Sha said...

This makes perfect sense to me. I'm awesome at doing nothing!