tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518428617674306537.post5783725311367753475..comments2009-01-16T21:54:04.591-06:00Timhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02912387794258207729noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518428617674306537.post-81951098631569487082009-01-16T21:54:00.000-06:002009-01-16T21:54:00.000-06:00idk I know plenty of guy friends, not including you, who are only friends. Where the subject ahs come up, and has been confirmed we are just friends, no matter what. I mean plenty of which I knew while I was going throguh a break up, and they were single or about to break up. ANd nothing happened. It depends on the guy.<BR/>The reason it's so easy to do it that way, is because it's easy to nudge people to do waht you want when they are vulnerable. <BR/>I'm not saying I haven't had it happen to me... I'm just saying.Alishahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08658365711933773276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518428617674306537.post-49054574054977268342009-01-15T09:49:00.000-06:002009-01-15T09:49:00.000-06:00That's gospel fuckin truth right there; I've been that guy, too.<BR/><BR/>I'm just glad I finally matured to the point where, if I'm interested, it's absurdly obvious. That's not to say I won't accept the consolation prize, if it's all I can get. But I will make it abundantly clear that it's not what I'm shooting for.squbehttp://sqube.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518428617674306537.post-11806308544711641352009-01-14T16:36:00.000-06:002009-01-14T16:36:00.000-06:00Best blog post I've read in a long while. And unfortunately all to true.<BR/><BR/>I was during most of my teen years the guy who was the "friend". I was an ass just as much as any guy could be, because I pretended to not be interested, and tried to make them see that I was interesting. Makes no sense to do so when one puts it like that, but as you know it makes sense when you're in the middle of it. I know how painful it is to hear that you're "just a friend".<BR/><BR/>It changed when I found a girl I truely cared for and longed for the first time I met her. More then she was beautiful she was smart and funny. Smart girls are nothing I was all to used to, having lived in a backwards town with the worst school results in the country.<BR/><BR/>With her I was committed from the start that I wanted her, and I made that clear.<BR/><BR/>Almost 2 years later we are still together. If I ever find myself single again (But hoping not) I will try to not be the "friend" again to get someone.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, while I believe you are right with the most thing I do believe that you can have female friends, you having an interest in them does not mean that it has to end :)<BR/>(Sorry if everything is incomprehensable, but I have a cold and a fever and is probably a bit out of my mind from that ;))Gismyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00364319794042909772noreply@blogger.com